I have a different experience here but will do it, so someone will stop this BS.Look I'd encourage you to go to the cops, ask to speak to a DV officer. Push them to take it seriously. I don't think the cops are corrupt. I think they're lazy.
would you recommend me anything else AtticusSo fairly standard restrictions ....
He is being a complete twit. Probably thinks he is ever so clever by getting a rise out of you without 'technically' breaching the DVO... Problem for him is that his behavior whilst maybe only borderline breaching, shows that he is still not getting the intent of the order, or possible consequences of breaching ....
While there is something to be said for ignoring twits who delight in getting a rise out of you, there are those that will up the ante if they DON'T get a rise .... It sounds like you have been doing your best to ignore & perhaps that is why this is now happening here with him posting pictures that he knows are an emotional trigger for you ... Bottom line is he needs to be pulled into line & shown that his smartassery may cost him...
I would be saving any screen shots & wouldn't hesitate to take them to police.... At the very least they will invite him to the station for a talk.. If they find there is a breach, well that's a criminal offense... Who's laughing now.. At the least he will be on notice to stop being a twit & pushing boundaries
No .... All you need do is get together any hard evidence you have, (like screen shots of his social media posts that include a pics of your dad for example)... take them along to your local police station & make a complaint about what he is doing... If you can take a friend with you that can verify the posts even better .... Up to the police then, but if a complaint of a breach has been made, & you have evidence to back it up, they *should* follow it up by asking him into a station for an interview .... Tell them you want to be kept informed of the outcome, & don't be afraid to call them after a week if you haven't heard anything .would you recommend me anything else Atticus
Thank you so much, I appreciate it. Happy EasterNo .... All you need do is get together any hard evidence you have, (like screen shots of his social media posts that include a pics of your dad for example)... take them along to your local police station & make a complaint about what he is doing... If you can take a friend with you that can verify the posts even better .... Up to the police then, but if a complaint of a breach has been made, & you have evidence to back it up, they *should* follow it up by asking him into a station for an interview .... Tell them you want to be kept informed of the outcome, & don't be afraid to call them after a week if you haven't heard anything .
Absolutely.... If nothing has happened in a week I would be insisting on taking the matter up with the stations most senior officer in chargeMy question here is, do I have rights to follow up on the case number I was given?
Nobody here can give you a definitive answer to that... It really is up to the police if they find that a clear breach has occurred what action should be taken... Considering they are suggesting you seek a shelter "in case he lashes out" suggests to me that this is the kind of IVO that actually needs them to do whatever is in their powers to do to protect youIs he going to be charged as he breached the orders?
Out of curiosity, what can this ex husband do to make the ex wife aware of the bank situation (if it is a genuine issue), without breaching the AVO?