My son and his partner separated 5 weeks ago. He was in an abusive relationship. The abuse started with verbal a few years ago then became physical in the last 12 months or so with my granddaughter witnessing everything.
My son moved back home and my 2 1/2-year-old granddaughter was staying here 3 days a week, but on the 10th February, the police arrived with a DVO on my son...So now he can't have any communication with her whatsoever.
He got legal advice and said he needs to do a counter-claim DVO (or cross claim), so we spent 3 days filling out forms, etc. We are waiting for her to be served...
It's been 2 1/2 weeks since we've seen her. The maternal grandmother is happy to arrange for me and hubby to pick her up for a few hours and take her home later today but we'll be taking her to my dad's place because she can't see her dad.
As my stupid ex-daughter-in-law has put my granddaughter down as child at risk, my son was the main caregiver since she was 6 months old because his ex-partner worked. Now he can't see her at all...
Does anyone know if it's OK for us to arrange with her parents to visit with the grandchild even though the maternal grandmother has to obviously ask her daughter, so she can arrange with her to pick her up, so we can collect her from the other grandmothers place?
As far as I know its not breaching the DVO.
This is heartbreaking. My son he misses her so much but we know it'll get sorted soon...With the DVO my son is putting on her, he has sworn affidavits and witnesses to her crazy outbursts of anger and constant yelling and witness to her hitting him even bashing him, whereas her DVO on him is 3/4s lies with misspelt words and sentences that don't make sense, with no witnesses or proof after anything except a few text messages.
My son has all his text messages and recorded calls of her yelling...so we're hoping she'll evoke her DVO and my son will then evoke his and then come to some arrangements until then. It's important our granddaughter doesn't think we've deserted her. Because my ex-daughter-in-law's parents work full time, she spent a lot of time here because my son was a stay at home dad.
My son moved back home and my 2 1/2-year-old granddaughter was staying here 3 days a week, but on the 10th February, the police arrived with a DVO on my son...So now he can't have any communication with her whatsoever.
He got legal advice and said he needs to do a counter-claim DVO (or cross claim), so we spent 3 days filling out forms, etc. We are waiting for her to be served...
It's been 2 1/2 weeks since we've seen her. The maternal grandmother is happy to arrange for me and hubby to pick her up for a few hours and take her home later today but we'll be taking her to my dad's place because she can't see her dad.
As my stupid ex-daughter-in-law has put my granddaughter down as child at risk, my son was the main caregiver since she was 6 months old because his ex-partner worked. Now he can't see her at all...
Does anyone know if it's OK for us to arrange with her parents to visit with the grandchild even though the maternal grandmother has to obviously ask her daughter, so she can arrange with her to pick her up, so we can collect her from the other grandmothers place?
As far as I know its not breaching the DVO.
This is heartbreaking. My son he misses her so much but we know it'll get sorted soon...With the DVO my son is putting on her, he has sworn affidavits and witnesses to her crazy outbursts of anger and constant yelling and witness to her hitting him even bashing him, whereas her DVO on him is 3/4s lies with misspelt words and sentences that don't make sense, with no witnesses or proof after anything except a few text messages.
My son has all his text messages and recorded calls of her yelling...so we're hoping she'll evoke her DVO and my son will then evoke his and then come to some arrangements until then. It's important our granddaughter doesn't think we've deserted her. Because my ex-daughter-in-law's parents work full time, she spent a lot of time here because my son was a stay at home dad.