Ive had a fvro placed on me by my ex partner now and i contested it straight away as theres no violence and the things she has stated ive done are not true ; as in threatened to steal her car from her , stolen money from her by using her apple id to buy porn, broke in to her house to steal court documents she was saving etc. She said a list of things like this which for the majority of them i can prove its a lie through our text messages.ie the car, i wanted to borrow her car as i was taking our two kids to a concert and she had a lift with my parents and i only have a work van,she was being silly about it and i said in a message that im still paying the loan for the car and have the spare key so if i wanted to take it i would have by now but i never would because its your family car to get the kids around with. So nothing like she makes out and most things are that black and white with it. Any way she has used the vro against me to push all my buttons ,it started when i wanted to change the way we were doing 50/50 with the kids, this didnt suit her and said i couldnt change the days. So took my kids out of school when i was meant to pick them up and took off with them and didnt let me know or answer my calls, the next day i got given the vro, she kept the kids from me for three weeks and i told her to give me back my kids everyday and abused bher by text message asking how she could do this. I obviously breached 8 times the first time then 7 the next for text messaging her.I got the second lot of charges the day before i was contesting the vro so i couldnt attend as i was incarcerated. So it was final. She used the vro to stop mediation so she could go to court saying she was scared, while I was waiting to plead guilty to the breaches of vro on schedule 2 no bail. She went to the family court and was given sole custody of my children with me only getting a phone call a week and supervised visits once a week.So after two months i had the breaches dealt with and got out. Now this what im not sure about, I went to the courts and plead my case and have had the vro put aside so its not final anymore, while getting a court date for that the judge said if i was your lawyer i would apply to get it cancelled too as my ex kept the kids away, messaged me alot and kind of enticed me to communicate. so i did that too.They were on the same day for a hearing. My ex pretended to be to scared to come into the court(she had been taking the phone off the kids and talking to me, dropping the kids off and seeing me etc) so it was put aside and not final and it got remanded till July to deal with it. Now my main thing is i want to contest the facts of her obtaining this vro as i will beat that , with it being set aside is that what is going on ?? As cancelling it through her enticing me was not why i originally went there for or want to do , I want to contest how she obtained this vro through lies!! This will almost have been a year ive had this on me and shouldnt be there. I admit i handled it wrong and breaching it but at first i was under the impression that when i get rid of it breaching would go to , i know better now. So since september last year and i want it gone its made my life hell. Those two months made me loose my electrical business my brother in law and i had, ive lost my kids and my rights to them and i have family court monday for the kids but just want to make sure when i go to court next its contesting the reasons how she actually obtained it ?? Wooh thats my story and question if someone could help it would be much appreciated Thanks N
