Hi, all. Here is the situation... 180k in a trust from house sale for the last 3 months under her instructions. Wife had consent orders drawn up with 50 percent of house each. Keep own super: me 93k, her 164k. I have the three kids 2 nights per fortnight but no mention of this in her lawyers consent order proposal. I am about to go to family court over access to my children. I want at least 4 nights per fortnight. We did mediation but I am jeopardising my job to see my kids by leaving work early two days a week for afternoon contact. She has received an inheritance but I don't know how much. I can't afford a lawyer but would like 5k from my share of the house sale trust to engage one. I just want to know where I stand. Can I access some of the money to engage a lawyer? Will the consent orders have a component about who has the children and will an adjustment me made in spite of the proposal? Can I be liable for court costs as threatened?