My ex and I had 50/50 custody of children on family court orders in place for our three children. We have always stuck to everything in the family court orders and there has never been any negotiating on anything outside of the family court orders. Recently, I accepted a temporary position overseas due to the bad economic climate where I was living. The ex agreed I could go and she would have the kids 100 percent. We discussed initially that I would return after a month for my four days off and see the kids and just play everything by ear. She seemed really amicable. However, two weeks into my stint, she informed me she had spoken to a lawyer and wanted to put new care orders in place. have stressed over and over, that I don't want to engage lawyers or re-visit the family court orders as this is probably only temporary. I have also explained to her, that I only left as I was near possible bankruptcy and I want the kids to stay in their private schools and hopefully secure a better future for them. She has sent through what looks to be a kit, that both parties fill out to change orders. She has proposed that upon my return, I see the kids every fortnight for three days. She has given me two weeks to sign the documents or she will apply through the courts. What are the repercussions for me, if it goes to family court, with breaking the family court orders? Will they take into account the fact that she agreed to let me go overseas and work? I'm not ready to sign my children over to her 100 percent as this work is probably only temporary.