Is seeing the kids the sole purpose of the visit?
Or, is seeing kids something that has become possible by-the-way
because she's here for some other reason (work...? holiday with now-husband...)?
You can't force them.
She can't force the them.
She doesn't have any of the rights she might think or claim to have.
Glib as it sounds, unless she's dying of something nasty
with only weeks to live (which is implausible given that she travelled)
she won't get to court for an order at (what seems like) short notice.
All that said, prepare for somebody uninvited at the front door, or
stalking them at school, or approaching them/you in the shopping centre.
From what I gather; she and her new husband decided to visit Australia for a holiday / to spend time with the kids.
She’s not dying or sick, they have mentioned that they plan to come back to Aus. Regularly to see the kids.
I have a strong feeling that this has all come about by way of her new husband being concerned that his partner (my ex) is likely to do the same with their new daughter. Which made me think this even more so after the sister of my ex who I have a good relationship with, told me of a argument she had with her sister re: wanting to leave the daughter with their parents for a few months while she chased a “business venture”. I won’t go into detail, but I will say it was laughable.
I am concerned of the latter, in that she might just turn up one day at the front door or kids school, which I why I worked from home while the kids were on school holidays.
She did go to the kids school (before they started) asking for access to school reports / online portal. Which the school denied. I am in the process of getting her, her own access to view reports, timetables, etc.
Also; since my last letter to her lawyer stating the the reason she hasn’t seen the kids yet is not because “I’m controlling them” as she so put, but I am protecting their emotional and mental wellbeing.
I have not had a reply from this last letter as yet.