Hi,
A quick run through of my situation. I’ve been through the family courts and final order was made this time last year. I have full custody of my three kids, my ex was ordered to supervised visits which my ex only attended I’m pretty sure it was four out of eight sessions. My ex were do I start, couldn’t be contacted for mediation, didn’t attend the first hearing of family court, produce dirty drug screens to dhs and asked if they could change the result, has moved with her partner 4 hours away, the same guy that hit my son and left two hand prints on his back, you get the drift of the sort of person she is. ( he is on the court order never to have contact in person or by phone with my kids ).
My first problem..
Now she hasn’t seen or made attempt to come down to see the kids since July last year. It’s in the order she can call between certain times and days. During these phone calls she is mentally hurting these kids promising things or promising that she coming to see them and it never happens. They’re still waiting on last years birthday and Christmas presents. Also saying things like they have to forget what happened with partner and that he has changed. she told my eldest that she was pregnant and my eldest was very upset by hearing this and starting crying her my replied if your not going to accept this baby your going to make me have a miscarriage.
What can I do to stop her saying these things to the kids, can I stop the phone calls?
Second problem..
I received a letter in the mail last week from fdrs stating that she has been referred by her lawyer for mediation and if I don’t accept they give her a letter to go back to court. Now I’m worried that if we won’t come to any agreements, she is not a reasonable personthere will be a chance that we’re back in the family courts. I payed close to $68,000
last time I’m not in the position to pay that amount again, and knowing her she will push it to that point because she gets legal aid funding.
Third problem...
I received a knock on the door last night from the police and they served me with a family violence order.
The order stats that I verbally abused her over the phone and she fears for her life etc. Not sure if she done this because she thinks it’s going to help her in mediation, though the concerning part is that she has put the kids names on the order when they are in my care. I tried to explain this to the police officer but they didn’t want to hear it also I showed them the family court order, they couldn’t give me a straight answer. My question is how do I fight this because she has tried this before and I have a court extract that she lied under oath and was caught out, all the charges against me were dropped and the family violence order was cancelled. Also one last thing the court I have to attend is where she resides witch 4 hours away, can I get it moved closer to me.
Any information would be a great help thanks.
A quick run through of my situation. I’ve been through the family courts and final order was made this time last year. I have full custody of my three kids, my ex was ordered to supervised visits which my ex only attended I’m pretty sure it was four out of eight sessions. My ex were do I start, couldn’t be contacted for mediation, didn’t attend the first hearing of family court, produce dirty drug screens to dhs and asked if they could change the result, has moved with her partner 4 hours away, the same guy that hit my son and left two hand prints on his back, you get the drift of the sort of person she is. ( he is on the court order never to have contact in person or by phone with my kids ).
My first problem..
Now she hasn’t seen or made attempt to come down to see the kids since July last year. It’s in the order she can call between certain times and days. During these phone calls she is mentally hurting these kids promising things or promising that she coming to see them and it never happens. They’re still waiting on last years birthday and Christmas presents. Also saying things like they have to forget what happened with partner and that he has changed. she told my eldest that she was pregnant and my eldest was very upset by hearing this and starting crying her my replied if your not going to accept this baby your going to make me have a miscarriage.
What can I do to stop her saying these things to the kids, can I stop the phone calls?
Second problem..
I received a letter in the mail last week from fdrs stating that she has been referred by her lawyer for mediation and if I don’t accept they give her a letter to go back to court. Now I’m worried that if we won’t come to any agreements, she is not a reasonable personthere will be a chance that we’re back in the family courts. I payed close to $68,000
last time I’m not in the position to pay that amount again, and knowing her she will push it to that point because she gets legal aid funding.
Third problem...
I received a knock on the door last night from the police and they served me with a family violence order.
The order stats that I verbally abused her over the phone and she fears for her life etc. Not sure if she done this because she thinks it’s going to help her in mediation, though the concerning part is that she has put the kids names on the order when they are in my care. I tried to explain this to the police officer but they didn’t want to hear it also I showed them the family court order, they couldn’t give me a straight answer. My question is how do I fight this because she has tried this before and I have a court extract that she lied under oath and was caught out, all the charges against me were dropped and the family violence order was cancelled. Also one last thing the court I have to attend is where she resides witch 4 hours away, can I get it moved closer to me.
Any information would be a great help thanks.