Long story short:
Father of my now 15 months old daughter is giving me a headache. He was uncontactable at birth, and he contacted me after 4 months to meet his child - I agreed. Since, he has come down maybe 4 weekends, all ending in arguments.
A few weeks ago, he wanted to come down again. I refused due to late notice and I have not been well lately and wasn't up for it. He now reckons he wants full custody of children (I am aware that will never happen), however what could the outcome be?
If he were to take matters further, what would be the process?
He surely would have to get his name on the birth certificate, right? Then proceed on filing the 60i certificate to the courts? When would I be notified?
He reckons it's already in process, I'm not convinced as he says a lot of s**t he thinks I don't know, but it can't be possible for some sort of custody thing happening about a child (not even legally his yet as he is not on the birth certificate) without notifying the mother?
Some info; he lives in a different state and hadn't made too much effort in being in her life. Plus I have advocates to show how hard I tried to contact him for the birth, good relationship with his parents, and the work I've done for him to see his child, such as booking his flights down (not paying) and letting him stay on the spare bed when he couldn't afford or find accommodation.
I've always been reachable to him, and he won't even answer my calls and just blocks me on everything. Also, I created a parenting plan for consistent visitation as he refused to do so. He then rejected my agreement and refused a counter offer.
Father of my now 15 months old daughter is giving me a headache. He was uncontactable at birth, and he contacted me after 4 months to meet his child - I agreed. Since, he has come down maybe 4 weekends, all ending in arguments.
A few weeks ago, he wanted to come down again. I refused due to late notice and I have not been well lately and wasn't up for it. He now reckons he wants full custody of children (I am aware that will never happen), however what could the outcome be?
If he were to take matters further, what would be the process?
He surely would have to get his name on the birth certificate, right? Then proceed on filing the 60i certificate to the courts? When would I be notified?
He reckons it's already in process, I'm not convinced as he says a lot of s**t he thinks I don't know, but it can't be possible for some sort of custody thing happening about a child (not even legally his yet as he is not on the birth certificate) without notifying the mother?
Some info; he lives in a different state and hadn't made too much effort in being in her life. Plus I have advocates to show how hard I tried to contact him for the birth, good relationship with his parents, and the work I've done for him to see his child, such as booking his flights down (not paying) and letting him stay on the spare bed when he couldn't afford or find accommodation.
I've always been reachable to him, and he won't even answer my calls and just blocks me on everything. Also, I created a parenting plan for consistent visitation as he refused to do so. He then rejected my agreement and refused a counter offer.