Among other things, a NOR with allegations of FV involving a child having been filed carries with it mandatory reporting to child welfare agencies.... You would have also both need to have have knowingly sworn a false affidavit.... If the interim orders are somehow a reflection of the allegations made in the NOR & supporting affidavits then the whole case should be discontinued & orders revoked.... I recommend that you both inform your lawyers that you provided false statements in support of a false NOR.... The lawyers can file a notice of discontinuance that you both agree to so there can be no application for legal costs...
Hopefully you can work things out, but if in the future you think you have to lie in order to give yourself an advantage, remember it's ultimately the kid/s that suffer, costs get blown out due to the added complexity it adds to the case, & you have to keep adding to the lies to support the initial ones... PLEASE DON'T DO IT AGAIN !
I need to fix up my wording ..........The allegations made are not entirely untrue but they were greatly exaggerated my partner he did this as he thought he would not have any chance of a fair outcome and in turn, I then retaliated with exaggerating my side of the story.
We both know this is wrong and should not have done this but when you are angry you some times say and do things you shouldn't.
I'm am sure we are not the first or only couple who has done this, still not the right thing to do I know.
The allegations made in the NOR had been made to FACS before we started court proceedings, I was investigated and cleared of all allegations by FACS.
The day before court my partner and I spoke and negotiated and also decide that we had both been ridiculous and wanted to sort out our relationship as well as our parental responsibilities ( our relationship has been great until around 3 years ago when we had a series of events that made our lives extremely stressful and instead of having each other back we turned on each other )
So this is where we are at now, we would both like to stop proceedings get ourselves and our family some counselling and find the best way to move forward but we were unsure if that could happen.
The NOR includes some drug and alcohol allegations which as I said I have been cleared off the other allegation was that my brother was a risk but that had been greatly exaggerated and has been dealt with and there isn't an issue now.