I would be having a chat to everyone about the TFN.
Start with your accountant, then your solicitor.
Go to centrelink - She is committing welfare fraud. I would suggest Centrelink are more likely to be interested in this than ato...
Some friendly advice - trust me this has been a long time for me to learn it and i still struggle with this reality. She is a NUTTER. MAD HATTER - Men are from Mars, women from Venus, BUT she is not from either, Pluto maybe - Apha Centurian, probably not even from this universe.... So the mistake you're gonna keep making is trying to be reasonable, polite, you know the stuff that us humans have learnt as social norms. NOT her. So your parents go and pay out the car debt... You offer her the car at a reasonable price. HELL NO. She wants the car, infact she probably thinks you should pay her compensation for the taxis she has had to catch as a result of this situation that YOU CREATED....
Story time - Way back when, the ex asked me to meet with her. I did so, very reluctantly.... At this point we'd both blown a small fortune on solicitors. So she wanted to have a discussion - how can we move forward.... It was very productive. At the end of it we hugged, agreed that it was all going to be ok and we were gonna work together for the sake of the kids.... I agreed to giving her 16K of my super, she keeps the proceeds from the sale of the house and I have the kids 5 nights a fortnight. Sweet.... I get a letter from her solicitor the next week. The letter explains that we have an agreement and that agreement was she gets 20K of my super, she keeps the proceeds from the sale of the house, I resume paying the mortgage for a house I'm not living in and continue to pay it until either the house sells OR the mortgage is paid out (which would take about 20 years) But she would still get the proceeds from the sale, even though she had not paid a cent. Oh and she has sole parental responsibilty for the kids and my access will by mutual agreement. Basically, I'd have to apply / request to see my own kids... WTF?
I reckon your ex arrived on the same UFO as mine.... Realise that you're not playing with someone who is prepared to play nice. That doesn't mean you should break rules, BUT realise that you're not gonna get anywhere until you apply some pressure. The only avenue for that is court.
Start with your accountant, then your solicitor.
Go to centrelink - She is committing welfare fraud. I would suggest Centrelink are more likely to be interested in this than ato...
Some friendly advice - trust me this has been a long time for me to learn it and i still struggle with this reality. She is a NUTTER. MAD HATTER - Men are from Mars, women from Venus, BUT she is not from either, Pluto maybe - Apha Centurian, probably not even from this universe.... So the mistake you're gonna keep making is trying to be reasonable, polite, you know the stuff that us humans have learnt as social norms. NOT her. So your parents go and pay out the car debt... You offer her the car at a reasonable price. HELL NO. She wants the car, infact she probably thinks you should pay her compensation for the taxis she has had to catch as a result of this situation that YOU CREATED....
Story time - Way back when, the ex asked me to meet with her. I did so, very reluctantly.... At this point we'd both blown a small fortune on solicitors. So she wanted to have a discussion - how can we move forward.... It was very productive. At the end of it we hugged, agreed that it was all going to be ok and we were gonna work together for the sake of the kids.... I agreed to giving her 16K of my super, she keeps the proceeds from the sale of the house and I have the kids 5 nights a fortnight. Sweet.... I get a letter from her solicitor the next week. The letter explains that we have an agreement and that agreement was she gets 20K of my super, she keeps the proceeds from the sale of the house, I resume paying the mortgage for a house I'm not living in and continue to pay it until either the house sells OR the mortgage is paid out (which would take about 20 years) But she would still get the proceeds from the sale, even though she had not paid a cent. Oh and she has sole parental responsibilty for the kids and my access will by mutual agreement. Basically, I'd have to apply / request to see my own kids... WTF?
I reckon your ex arrived on the same UFO as mine.... Realise that you're not playing with someone who is prepared to play nice. That doesn't mean you should break rules, BUT realise that you're not gonna get anywhere until you apply some pressure. The only avenue for that is court.