Our separation was 12 months ago. My ex is staying in one house we both own. My daughter and I are in a villa. My ex and I have joint names but under it is home loans that I pay $450 a week. She pays nothing up there and pays nothing to home loans. The villa was put up on sale. When it was sold, the house she is in needs a bit done to be sold as well, but told me if I go there, she will take an AVO on me and I have not done anything. Can I have her removed and can I recover any moneies from her for the home loan?