Sorry - I tried to change the title of this thread and couldn’t! I do know how to spell contravention...
So, we have consent orders in place....
What do you know? On Friday I get to my daughters school to collect her for her 4 day night weekend with me due to the public holiday and 2 mins before the bell goes, my daughter calls me from the school office to say that she feels sick and that my ex was coming to get her.
I said what? What’s going on? I’m here waiting for you, I’ll come to get you and she says no my ex is and hangs up.
The ex text me 45 mins later to say that wasn’t sure what was going on but had collected our daughter and would talk to her to see what was up.
I hear nothing until my daughter calls Saturday morning to say she’s been sick all night and won’t be coming (noting she posted a dance video online at 8.30pm the previous night that I saw and clearly wasn’t sick).
I text the ex to ask what’s happening and I get a text back saying that it’s not my decision to decide that our daughter will or won’t come.
I pointed out to my ex that no, it wasn’t Either of our decisions, in fact the judge had decided when she made our consent orders final, but the ex responded that no orders were being breached and said SHE’S STAYING WITH ME ALL WEEKEND. YOU DONT GET TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO. END OF DISCUSSION.
I have no idea what is going on. All I want is to have my daughter be with me for he weekend as the orders say.
I feel like this is the beginning of my ex just wanting to do what my ex wants to do and that my daughter may be withheld from me moving forward.
Do I apply to the court for contravention??
So, we have consent orders in place....
What do you know? On Friday I get to my daughters school to collect her for her 4 day night weekend with me due to the public holiday and 2 mins before the bell goes, my daughter calls me from the school office to say that she feels sick and that my ex was coming to get her.
I said what? What’s going on? I’m here waiting for you, I’ll come to get you and she says no my ex is and hangs up.
The ex text me 45 mins later to say that wasn’t sure what was going on but had collected our daughter and would talk to her to see what was up.
I hear nothing until my daughter calls Saturday morning to say she’s been sick all night and won’t be coming (noting she posted a dance video online at 8.30pm the previous night that I saw and clearly wasn’t sick).
I text the ex to ask what’s happening and I get a text back saying that it’s not my decision to decide that our daughter will or won’t come.
I pointed out to my ex that no, it wasn’t Either of our decisions, in fact the judge had decided when she made our consent orders final, but the ex responded that no orders were being breached and said SHE’S STAYING WITH ME ALL WEEKEND. YOU DONT GET TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO. END OF DISCUSSION.
I have no idea what is going on. All I want is to have my daughter be with me for he weekend as the orders say.
I feel like this is the beginning of my ex just wanting to do what my ex wants to do and that my daughter may be withheld from me moving forward.
Do I apply to the court for contravention??