Child abuse by the X

Has it occurred to you that your little angels were maybe misbehaving and she was disciplining them as she sees fit?

That they were exaggerating mum’s discipline as ‘abuse’ because they know that’s what you like to hear?

That you have potentially overreacted in formidable fashion and in doing so, undermined mum and shown that you don’t appreciate her role as their parent?

Be careful.

Mate, I’ve read your other posts on this site, and thus far, I have chosen not to respond because I think you are very much the main problem in your own proceedings, and primarily because you have absolutely no grasp on how your own actions are hurting your case and your children.

‘The kids’ granddad took out a VRO on me when all’s I said was that I’d find him if he hurt the kids again’.

I’m sorry, what? All you said was what, now? You have a VRO against you by the mother, with what I understand to be more than one breach recorded, and ‘all you said’ to her father was that you’d basically hunt him down and hurt him if you decided he had hurt the kids? Mate, what in the blazes are you thinking?? Use your common sense!

But, let me guess, it’s the system’s fault, right? Or it’s mum’s fault because she’s vindictive, right? Whoever is at fault, it most definitely isn’t you, right? You’re just the little, old victim of a biased system, right?

And that is why I’m betting you’ll lose your parenting case in spectacular fashion - you make absolutely no concession for how you have contributed to the mess you’re in, which means you are unlikely to improve your own behaviour even though it’s clear as day that doing so is what’s best for the kids.

My advice? Stop looking for an underhanded way to get the kids out what you hope is a dangerous situation. This is the first and only time you’ve ever raised concerns about abuse in the other household, so it’s not very persuasive, and while your kids may not lie, I can assure you they’re only giving you the truths that don’t paint them in a bad light. Context is everything, and as adults, we should have the intelligence and maturity enough to understand that. I have watched my seven-year-old stepdaughter snatch a toy from her toddler cousin and get swiped in return, only to have her march right up to my face 30 seconds later and tell me ‘X hit me for no reason!’

You need to change your tune if you want to stand a chance of getting parenting orders even slightly in your favour, mate, because right now, all you are showing the Court is that you hate the mother, and your entire focus is on your issues with her, rather than on what’s best for the kids.

If WA family law allows it, you should be applying to have an Independent Children's Lawyer (ICL) appointed so your story can be independently corroborated.

Doctors have mandatory reporting obligations, meaning if they suspect a child is being abused, they are obligated to inform CPS.

Did the doctor file a report with CPS?

AllForHer said:

Mate, I’ve read your other posts on this site,

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So have i now.. Methinks this guy has been reading too much Brotherhood of Fathers guff. You dont get ANYWHERE by claiming huge conspiracies and writing to your local member claiming conspiracies and you certainly do not get anywhere trying to turn young words into a change of care without backing from the appropriate professionals. In fact, I think this is exactly the kind of guy who could end up being blamed for coaching kids.. sorry OP