my partner has an ivo against me but did not want me to stop seeing her or contacting her, she is not well as she is battling a terminal illness and can not go to court to change this is there another way at all because so far i have been charged wuth 5 breaches and spent 3 nights in jail just for replying to her messages im now out on bail and was told by judge anymore breeches i will spend 2 years in jail and yet my partner has told the courts she does not want me charged, im in desperate need for help eith this