Sorry should have explained this;
Property in both names she moved out in January taking my son (14years) without my consent 275km from me.
We have only discussed property settlements not personal belongings.
Also in the rear of the piano she took today was $3500 cash I had hidden where do I stand with that ?
There has been no discussion on divorce yet but I have been paying all the repayments on the home since she left she has refused to pay anything.