So I agreed to meet with her and the kids at the park and she said she would message me in the morning to tell me what time. I hadn't heard from her by 10:30, so I messaged her to ask what time she was going, but I didn't get a reply.
I messaged her ago at 12:30 asking her why she was making this situation hard - still no reply. At about 5, I still hadn't heard from her guessing that she had changed her mind and was ignoring me, I decide to go over to her parent's house where she is staying and see the kids.
I knock on the door and the mother-in-law answers and ask "can I help you?" like I'm some stranger. I ask if I can see the kids and she tells me that they are in the shower. I thought that was a bit strange as there are 5 of them and the shower isn't big enough for all of them, so I asked all of them, and she replied "yes". So I said I would wait until they have finished. She says that I will have to wait outside and I reply "of course".
I patiently wait outside for maybe 10 minutes and nobody has come out to see me, so I'm guessing she doesn't want me to see them, so I text her again saying "I'm not going away until the I've seen the kids". I also knock on the door at this time. After waiting for a few more minutes, I begin to get impatient and start knock every few minutes and occasionally calling out to the kids so they can hear me and know that I am the one knocking and that I want to see them. Still no answer.
I text her again "Do you want me to get the police involved?" hoping that this will pressure her into letting me see the kids. Still no reply. I'm still knocking on the door and calling out to the kids. I message her again saying "This won't look good for you when I ring the police and family law".
By this time I've come to the conclusion that she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore and she has probably rung the police herself to get me to leave (which I secretly hope she has because then I can tell them what's going on). I keep knocking and calling out the kids and eventually the police do show up. As the officers start walking up the driveway I say "Great, you can help me see my kids".
One officer stays with me and gets my side while the other goes inside to talk to my wife. After about 20 minutes the police come out and tell me that some of the kids are scared and don't want to see me, but the others do want to see me. So they ask if it is fine with them coming outside with the police watching, I say "that's fine". So in the end, all 5 kids end up coming out and I start crying as they come and hug me and we tell each other "I love you" and "I miss you".
We chat for 20 - 30 minutes before I tell them goodbye. The police then tell me my wife wants to talk to me before I go and ask if that's ok. I say sure. The first thing she tells me is that the relationship is over. Then she tells me that she has applied for a DVO and it will be served to me in the next day or so.
The first thing that comes to my mind is I have no place to. I have no friends, and my family is in NSW. Where am I supposed to go? Is there anything I can do to either avoid the DVO or fight it before I am served with it?
Sorry for the lack of grammar. I had to get that all out of my head.