My separated and soon to be ex wife has a habit of turning to nothing but spite and hate when she does not get her way.
I have court ordered custody of our 2 kids most weekends and half of school holidays.
We had discussed the kids staying with me an extra day to make the changeover today (Sunday). I have more than once asked to make the time to swap be 230 as I have work this afternoon and it is an hour drive from where we swap back home. She knows I have work, and I believe it is because of this she is stalling making an actual arrangement for the time it is to happen.
I have made so many allowances for her, even going as far as to drive the 2.5hr trip down there just so that she can work and couldn't make the court ordered (and 100% decided by her) time.
The 'usual' change over is at 4pm, but I never agreed that having them this extra day meant I cannot go to work this afternoon.
Am I within my own rights to take them back to my home and leave it up to her to pick them up from me? Or am I expected to wait around for her and do the swap at a time that she has alone decided. (A time that I am positive she is saying just to try and hurt me and make things more difficult)
I made the trip half way early to try and arrange the swap, and she is flat out ignoring me.
Even last night she was up until after midnight sending me insults and refusing to agree on a time that means I don't risk ruining another job because of her issue whatever that may be at the time.
I have court ordered custody of our 2 kids most weekends and half of school holidays.
We had discussed the kids staying with me an extra day to make the changeover today (Sunday). I have more than once asked to make the time to swap be 230 as I have work this afternoon and it is an hour drive from where we swap back home. She knows I have work, and I believe it is because of this she is stalling making an actual arrangement for the time it is to happen.
I have made so many allowances for her, even going as far as to drive the 2.5hr trip down there just so that she can work and couldn't make the court ordered (and 100% decided by her) time.
The 'usual' change over is at 4pm, but I never agreed that having them this extra day meant I cannot go to work this afternoon.
Am I within my own rights to take them back to my home and leave it up to her to pick them up from me? Or am I expected to wait around for her and do the swap at a time that she has alone decided. (A time that I am positive she is saying just to try and hurt me and make things more difficult)
I made the trip half way early to try and arrange the swap, and she is flat out ignoring me.
Even last night she was up until after midnight sending me insults and refusing to agree on a time that means I don't risk ruining another job because of her issue whatever that may be at the time.