So she moved to WA, right? But you're in a different state?
Clearly, your enthusiasm for being a dad has not been diminished by the ex's negative attitude... If you're that keen to be involved in the kids live I suggest:
1. Save some $$ and move to WA.
2. Move to the same vicinity and seek additional time.
3. Be patient... 8 months old is cute... Little old ladies stop you in the street to tell you how beautiful your baby is... 2-year-old's are not cute... Little old ladies stop you in the shops to tell you that your child should learn some manners. The novelty of motherhood will wear off. Mum will want to go out, etc, etc and will call on you for assistance... If you are on the other side of the country that won't happen...
4. If you move to WA and do all you can to see the kid, it will not matter all that much if you wait a while to apply to court as you will be able to demonstrate that you've done all you can to be an active dad and hopefully I'm right with point 3 and you will get more time without court...
5. Like allforher said court is a good motivator to get her to agree. Sure applying to court may upset her - but if she let you see the kid more then it would not be necessary...
Final thought - do all you can to get time with the child without the stress of court but if it comes to that, she has more to fear from court than you do... That will be a bitter pill for her to swallow, but that is not your problem...
Clearly, your enthusiasm for being a dad has not been diminished by the ex's negative attitude... If you're that keen to be involved in the kids live I suggest:
1. Save some $$ and move to WA.
2. Move to the same vicinity and seek additional time.
3. Be patient... 8 months old is cute... Little old ladies stop you in the street to tell you how beautiful your baby is... 2-year-old's are not cute... Little old ladies stop you in the shops to tell you that your child should learn some manners. The novelty of motherhood will wear off. Mum will want to go out, etc, etc and will call on you for assistance... If you are on the other side of the country that won't happen...
4. If you move to WA and do all you can to see the kid, it will not matter all that much if you wait a while to apply to court as you will be able to demonstrate that you've done all you can to be an active dad and hopefully I'm right with point 3 and you will get more time without court...
5. Like allforher said court is a good motivator to get her to agree. Sure applying to court may upset her - but if she let you see the kid more then it would not be necessary...
Final thought - do all you can to get time with the child without the stress of court but if it comes to that, she has more to fear from court than you do... That will be a bitter pill for her to swallow, but that is not your problem...