ok so the first case I mentioned - Pork chop vs pork chop...
This is what you wanna avoid. Where the court has to determine which of you is the biggest pork chop and in the best interests of the kids determine that one porkchop should have primary care and sole parental responsibility and the other porkchop gets sent home...
Let me quote again from that judge
"This is a very sad case. Since separation, all of the children have lived with their father and become estranged from their mother. To an extraordinary extent, the parents have allowed their wish to hurt each other to overwhelm their wish to foster the wellbeing of their children. "
So don't worry about names of judges etc...
Given allegations that have been proven false - this is your case
even though the allegations against you are not quite as horrific as this poor punter.
I reckon you'd be better seeking a good behavour bond where she risks a fine for not complying rather than a temp sole parental responsibility order?