Any advice on how a stay at home mother can get a fair settlement without having to actually go to court and pay all those legal fees? I’m hoping to return to study next year - as was always the plan - splitting up was not... he earns about 200k a year so can afford to take this to court but I’m hoping he won’t want to. When I saw a lawyer it was all very wishy washy you’ll be fine and here’s a list of our fees / potential court costs but no real advice on what is realistic to expect so I don’t end up in poverty while he continues his career that he built up while mine collapsed under nappies and laundry.