So my ex and I broke up almost a year ago now. We have a son that we share custody of. As of now there are no official documents etc that state the arrangements we have agreed too. Of course the big one is custody. We both agreed initially that it would be 50/50 and the only reason for me taking things further to mediation is because of late we argue over everything week in week out and it's doing my head in because we can't agree on things. There's also things my ex does that really isn't fair in a 50/50 situation that i was hoping a parenting plan might help fix. One example would be giving me no notice of holidays she takes him on that go into my week with him. And lately whenever we argue she brings up custody as if she's gonna take him from me.
I understand that it's highly unlikely that she has enough of a case to make against me for her to actually take custody of him the main reason for me attempting to get a parenting plan sorted is just so I have some sort of back up should she keep breaching our current word agreement. It could also allow me to move on from these threats of custody I just want it to be 50/50 and no other issues its really starting to get stressful when we have these fights each week.
However I've gone to mediation and now found out she has refused as the mediator has sent me a 60I form.
I believe the next step is court but was just wondering if anyone had some advice as in is it worth it for my sanity. I understand that court orders are quite difficult to change once in place and that I may still have to get her to agree to it? How does that work? All i want is a plan in place so we both know what the agreement is and I can move on with my life. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank You
I understand that it's highly unlikely that she has enough of a case to make against me for her to actually take custody of him the main reason for me attempting to get a parenting plan sorted is just so I have some sort of back up should she keep breaching our current word agreement. It could also allow me to move on from these threats of custody I just want it to be 50/50 and no other issues its really starting to get stressful when we have these fights each week.
However I've gone to mediation and now found out she has refused as the mediator has sent me a 60I form.
I believe the next step is court but was just wondering if anyone had some advice as in is it worth it for my sanity. I understand that court orders are quite difficult to change once in place and that I may still have to get her to agree to it? How does that work? All i want is a plan in place so we both know what the agreement is and I can move on with my life. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thank You