Hi there, I've had 50% shared custody of my 2yr old with his mother for the last 2 months and before that had him for 2 nights 3 days a week( now its 3 nights 4 days a week) ( custody of children). I updated this with CSA ( Child Support Agency) and she confirmed the arrangement when they called her and since then her child support amount and her govt payments have been cut. She has now (unsuccessfully) attempted to blackmail me in to lying to CSA or she'll cut my custody of him. Its been a very rough 2.5 yrs dealing with her and in this time I've attempted mediation twice ( once through relationships aust and once through legal aid) and have been issued 2 60i certificates due to her not attending or even acknowledging the invitations. I do not want to drag him (our son) through the family court system if there is any other possibilities as it seems like a proverbial emotion and cash drain with no real winners. I'm just curious if I should inform CSA of her blackmail attempts and if she does follow through and not allow me to pick him up or see him whether there's any legal recourse available to me other then taking her to court because she's the one not holding up her end of our agreement. We don't have any court orders it's just been verbal agreements as I haven't been able to get her to sign any parenting plans or come to any mediation. Any and all advice is welcomed. Thank you in advance.