You are becoming obsessed over nothing.
One of the traits they look for in Police is the ability to move on. Water off a ducks back. People think we are trained not to respond to provocation. You see it in the media all the time when a cop eventually looses it and punches someone in retaliation and the media and public go crazy claiming we are taught not to respond in such a way. Example: Spit on an officer, expect force in return: Police union chief. We're not trained to do it, our nature is that we generally have a higher threshold than your standard person on the street. That threshold is slowly increased because we become desensitised to it (the public doesn't realise that this desensitisation process has ramifications though).
You need to let it go. I don't even understand why you still care. Life is not fair. Nothing in life is fair. The fact the cop only sent you an email tells you he knows there is no criminality in it but he is warning you that she will make waves for you if you contact her again. Your reaction to this is a sign of your immaturity - she might be immature. But who gives a s**t. Let it go, let it go.
One of the traits they look for in Police is the ability to move on. Water off a ducks back. People think we are trained not to respond to provocation. You see it in the media all the time when a cop eventually looses it and punches someone in retaliation and the media and public go crazy claiming we are taught not to respond in such a way. Example: Spit on an officer, expect force in return: Police union chief. We're not trained to do it, our nature is that we generally have a higher threshold than your standard person on the street. That threshold is slowly increased because we become desensitised to it (the public doesn't realise that this desensitisation process has ramifications though).
You need to let it go. I don't even understand why you still care. Life is not fair. Nothing in life is fair. The fact the cop only sent you an email tells you he knows there is no criminality in it but he is warning you that she will make waves for you if you contact her again. Your reaction to this is a sign of your immaturity - she might be immature. But who gives a s**t. Let it go, let it go.