Kindly clarify for me how it is that somebody who makes this claim:and this claim then (in his own words), doesn't "cotton on" to the context of the original question?
I have said before that I look on my Family Law colleagues with a respect bordering on bewildered awe.
This is in no small part due to my admiration for their seemingly infinite patience
when dealing with... exceptionally difficult... clients.
Well you lost me whatever it is your talking about, but i will clarify what my original point was....
The OP hasn't really communicated well with his council. People should not sit back and assume their lawyer knows every detail they need to know. lawyers have allot of other cases on their minds to think about, whereas you have only the one case in front of you. In my job, i have to be on the ball and constantly communicate with our lawyers and make sure they know everything they need to know, as very often it will be discovered there were important points they had overlooked.
I am not blaming our lawyers for anything, my point is about how important good and thorough communication is, not assuming your lawyers know, and as a result, we have never lost a case!