Hey guys,
Hoping some member may have past experience with similar situation & trying to work out if rules, reg's and legal principles have been determined as an optional extra to use if and when it suits.
OK, after protracted litigation-parenting orders, one such hearing produced a "self executing order"- It wasnt termed that by anyone but research threw up that term & it seems to describe this order. As in, orders pronounced had a condition to satisfy and when that condition was satisfied then it allowed a following condition to kick in automatically-seems to fit the type of orders, I think.
Anyways, that second condition was to see the child, which ex will do, say & be whatever to stop, block, deny, withhold that from happening. The ICL involved who sent ex letter of Mr...dude has done the condition 1 on order xyz, so letting you know you're expected to deliver the child up 2 hand-over in a couple of days as per order blah blah.
Ex didn't like this and sent ICL & me a letter following day basically saying get stuffed I'm running the world remember so no we are not going to deliver child up. Don't care what order says that's wrong we think it should've said this so we're going to file urgent application to vary order by slip rule.
To me it seemed no different as in I didn't like orders delivered at some point in this ordeals history & it was oh well suck it up or hurry up & kick off appeal process within 28 days.
Ex's mob were outside this timeframe & didn't appreciate my commenting that they had 2 barristers an ICL solicitor present in court day orders pronounced, plus ex's solicitor additionally involved as probably 5-6 letters between everyone were sent around in the couple of months between pronouncment of orders and satisfying self executory order & ICL's couple mentioned the conditions of orders xyz that state as soon as Mr dude does this than child is expected...
So yeah 2 barristers & 2 solicitors that are all either pretty lazy at reading docs. thoroughly or 2 lazy to file appeal in 28 days window, either way not child's or mine fault for their combined incompetence & hell no we shouldn't have to wait til your urgent application is heard in 3.5 weeks time.
So short of going to ex's screaming and waving my binding orders around & dragging child from there to come hang with me, which no way was I so muppet man kicked fair in the nads again basically & missed out 2 visits with child-DVO'd !
3.5 weeks later we head back to court only ex's barrister there and no ICL barrister( these 2 usually the 2 tweedles every other hearing) & barristor man toned down his ". I'm gonna wipe floor with you ya non legal gimp" attitude considerably & refrained from long winded ramble as if trying to quietly sneak this " back door appeal" through.
I jumped up in protest and ignorant bliss & challenged usage of slip rule & didn't consent & judge actually said she couldn't use the slip rule because she listened back to recording and what she said was what was written in order. I'm saying the order was perfected, recorded, & by the self executionary part being satisfied by the action required-spent order.
Now should that have been OK off ya's go now or am I right in believing I've been stitched up so as these elites don't give an inch to the SRL dad as the hearing went on & resulted in the variation the ex's barrister wanted in order was indeed the result.
I dead set have had a gutfull & admit I feel they collude and help each other here and there & turn blind eye to raft of rules, professional standards....you name it. But I'm open to opinions cause I'm reading this crap so much it gives me headache & asleep legs from time in chair but to me if he failed at using slip rule then orders aren't to be touched unless he satisfies Rice & Asplund threshold?
Sorry for novel length & hope it makes sense to others but I'm very very interested to hear what people reckon should've happened. Me, I can't shake the dirty grubby feeling I've been royally shafted & my legal rights & equality before the law status got yanked down & ended up around my ankles with my Y-fronts .
No haters or spelling nazi's please. Peace out!
Hoping some member may have past experience with similar situation & trying to work out if rules, reg's and legal principles have been determined as an optional extra to use if and when it suits.
OK, after protracted litigation-parenting orders, one such hearing produced a "self executing order"- It wasnt termed that by anyone but research threw up that term & it seems to describe this order. As in, orders pronounced had a condition to satisfy and when that condition was satisfied then it allowed a following condition to kick in automatically-seems to fit the type of orders, I think.
Anyways, that second condition was to see the child, which ex will do, say & be whatever to stop, block, deny, withhold that from happening. The ICL involved who sent ex letter of Mr...dude has done the condition 1 on order xyz, so letting you know you're expected to deliver the child up 2 hand-over in a couple of days as per order blah blah.
Ex didn't like this and sent ICL & me a letter following day basically saying get stuffed I'm running the world remember so no we are not going to deliver child up. Don't care what order says that's wrong we think it should've said this so we're going to file urgent application to vary order by slip rule.
To me it seemed no different as in I didn't like orders delivered at some point in this ordeals history & it was oh well suck it up or hurry up & kick off appeal process within 28 days.
Ex's mob were outside this timeframe & didn't appreciate my commenting that they had 2 barristers an ICL solicitor present in court day orders pronounced, plus ex's solicitor additionally involved as probably 5-6 letters between everyone were sent around in the couple of months between pronouncment of orders and satisfying self executory order & ICL's couple mentioned the conditions of orders xyz that state as soon as Mr dude does this than child is expected...
So yeah 2 barristers & 2 solicitors that are all either pretty lazy at reading docs. thoroughly or 2 lazy to file appeal in 28 days window, either way not child's or mine fault for their combined incompetence & hell no we shouldn't have to wait til your urgent application is heard in 3.5 weeks time.
So short of going to ex's screaming and waving my binding orders around & dragging child from there to come hang with me, which no way was I so muppet man kicked fair in the nads again basically & missed out 2 visits with child-DVO'd !
3.5 weeks later we head back to court only ex's barrister there and no ICL barrister( these 2 usually the 2 tweedles every other hearing) & barristor man toned down his ". I'm gonna wipe floor with you ya non legal gimp" attitude considerably & refrained from long winded ramble as if trying to quietly sneak this " back door appeal" through.
I jumped up in protest and ignorant bliss & challenged usage of slip rule & didn't consent & judge actually said she couldn't use the slip rule because she listened back to recording and what she said was what was written in order. I'm saying the order was perfected, recorded, & by the self executionary part being satisfied by the action required-spent order.
Now should that have been OK off ya's go now or am I right in believing I've been stitched up so as these elites don't give an inch to the SRL dad as the hearing went on & resulted in the variation the ex's barrister wanted in order was indeed the result.
I dead set have had a gutfull & admit I feel they collude and help each other here and there & turn blind eye to raft of rules, professional standards....you name it. But I'm open to opinions cause I'm reading this crap so much it gives me headache & asleep legs from time in chair but to me if he failed at using slip rule then orders aren't to be touched unless he satisfies Rice & Asplund threshold?
Sorry for novel length & hope it makes sense to others but I'm very very interested to hear what people reckon should've happened. Me, I can't shake the dirty grubby feeling I've been royally shafted & my legal rights & equality before the law status got yanked down & ended up around my ankles with my Y-fronts .
No haters or spelling nazi's please. Peace out!