Hi All
Just wondering and would appreciate any help that may be given to help me make a decision on whether I should proceed to Family Court.
I currently have 5 nights per fortnight with my 4-year-old daughter, whom I am extremely close to. My ex-wife walked out on us 6 months ago and we started with a 50/50 arrangement but that was then cancelled by my wife and she came back with a 9/5 fortnight 'offer'. Hence, I got lawyers involved to try and get back the shared arrangement that we started off with but after nearly $10,000 spent in fees, there has been no shift from my wife to try and extend the time.
My lawyer has said that if we did go to family court, I would likely be granted an extra night as I live closer to my daughter's school. She does not want to go back to mummy's and every time I drop her off on the week, where I have her for 2 nights, she cries the whole 20-minute car trip saying she does not want to go back.
I am worried that if we do go to court there is a possibility that my time may be reduced, although my lawyer has said that would be extremely unlikely. There is no history of any violence or drug abuse or even a raised voice really, so no issues there.
Is it worth the stress pursuing this further as I feel I need to do as much as I can to try and have my daughter for more time and I don't want to let her down?
I have agreed a couple for times trial the arrangement we have for 12 months for a review but I feel the longer I leave things, the longer the status quo will be in place and hared to change down the track. My ex has not been easy to deal with and I don't know if I can just hope that she will calm down and grant extra time and take that risk for the next 14 years?
Any help would be appreciated.
Just wondering and would appreciate any help that may be given to help me make a decision on whether I should proceed to Family Court.
I currently have 5 nights per fortnight with my 4-year-old daughter, whom I am extremely close to. My ex-wife walked out on us 6 months ago and we started with a 50/50 arrangement but that was then cancelled by my wife and she came back with a 9/5 fortnight 'offer'. Hence, I got lawyers involved to try and get back the shared arrangement that we started off with but after nearly $10,000 spent in fees, there has been no shift from my wife to try and extend the time.
My lawyer has said that if we did go to family court, I would likely be granted an extra night as I live closer to my daughter's school. She does not want to go back to mummy's and every time I drop her off on the week, where I have her for 2 nights, she cries the whole 20-minute car trip saying she does not want to go back.
I am worried that if we do go to court there is a possibility that my time may be reduced, although my lawyer has said that would be extremely unlikely. There is no history of any violence or drug abuse or even a raised voice really, so no issues there.
Is it worth the stress pursuing this further as I feel I need to do as much as I can to try and have my daughter for more time and I don't want to let her down?
I have agreed a couple for times trial the arrangement we have for 12 months for a review but I feel the longer I leave things, the longer the status quo will be in place and hared to change down the track. My ex has not been easy to deal with and I don't know if I can just hope that she will calm down and grant extra time and take that risk for the next 14 years?
Any help would be appreciated.