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NSW Personal Loan to Ex - How to Get Money Back?

Discussion in 'Debt and Bankruptcy Law Forum' started by Amber neale, 21 July 2015.

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  1. Amber neale

    Amber neale Member

    21 July 2015
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    My ex owes me $950 and I'm not sure whether there's anyway to make him pay and make sure he pays the full amount back to me? When we were together we made an agreement together that he would pay back the debt at $100 a fortnight, but it was only a verbal agreement ( personal loan). Now that we have broken up he is delaying paying me back, promising me he will and then dragging it out; and making me nag and annoy him for the money which I don't want to do. I have suggested automatic payments to make it easier which he has said he would sort out, but has not and I'm fed up asking him every day to pay me back.

    Is there anything I can do legally to give him incentive to pay me back on time and when he said he would?
  2. Sarah J

    Sarah J Well-Known Member

    16 July 2014
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    Hi Amber,

    Do you have:
    • Evidence of having made the verbal agreement with your ex?
    • Evidence of the due date for repayment?
    • Evidence of you having leant the money to your ex (i.e. paid the money to him, and that the payment was a loan)?
    • Evidence of your ex admitting that the money is a loan with him intending to repay you?
    A verbal agreement forms a contract. If your ex fails to comply with the contract, then he is in breach and you can sue him to reclaim the debt. The difficulty in your case is proving that (i) there was a contract entered into, (ii) the terms of the contract, and (iii) that he breached these terms. This is why I asked the above questions.
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  3. Darren Fletcher

    Darren Fletcher Active Member

    23 May 2015
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    Forget the debt, move on and it will be the best $950 you ever spent!

    I believe that he owes you, I believe that he knows he owes you. Maybe you can prove it in court, maybe you can't but even if you win, you lose.

    He is using the debt to maintain ties. Do not enable him. If you ever establish the validity of the debt and have it legally enforced, it will cost you so much time and money to get there that it will hardly be worth it - and then he can run rings around you while you try to have the settlement enforced.

    The best thing you can do after forgetting the debt is to forgive him because unless you forgive him, you will never be able to forget him.
  4. Ivy

    Ivy Well-Known Member

    10 February 2015
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