I have a parenting plan that doesn't appear in the best interest for he child. It's an equal parental responsibility plan. The father has never lived with the child. The child is Asperger's. The father is using the plan to manipulate and control. The father lives 5 hours away and only sees his son half the school holidays and 2 weekends a term. I am told I can't get legal aid for any other reason than for if he takes me to court. I feel I am being harassed and I cant do anything unless he takes me to court.