My ex and I have only had a parenting plan for the past month and we are already fighting over it. My son can't go to the first visitation date because he has been sick but my ex is throwing a hissyfit over it despite my attempts to compromise with a different date. Then there is the issue of my ex's wedding. It is not in the parenting plan but I offered to drive my son 3-4 hours up state to attend despite the fact that the father is meant to meet me half way for visitation but he isn't willing to let me get there on my own schedule. I also specifically included my ex's birthday, father's day and a week every holidays that my son goes to stay with him but he flat out refuses to let me have the same courtesy of birthdays, etc. It's such a petty bunch of stuff to fight over but he is forcing me to go back and have the parenting plan amended. What are my chances of successfully disputing the agreement through mediation without going to family court, or is my best option to go to family court, change the parenting plan to include clauses that help my son when he is sick and our financial situation with family court orders?