I was married for 14 yrs and separated under the same roof for over a year after I found out he was stalking me by recording all ins and out calls..then when I found out he was using a pen camera even in the bathroom ..I lost it and left him and moved out with my 3 kids for 2 months even when the house was under my sole name. We have 3 kids oldest is 11 and twins are 7
Now I agreed on his request to settle first on 25% of the house..once I agreed he changed his mind and now asking for 50 50 time to spend with the kids so that his equity in the house will increase.
Since I let him to see the kids, he is brain washing the kids that it is mum fault. I have done nothing..she doesn't want to give me second chance..she blicked me...etc and the kids would come agitated every time I send them with him... up to the level that I started to refuse sending the kids this week and sent only my oldest son to sleep over with him..he started threatening today that he will get a court order.. don't know what to do?!!!
Help please
Now I agreed on his request to settle first on 25% of the house..once I agreed he changed his mind and now asking for 50 50 time to spend with the kids so that his equity in the house will increase.
Since I let him to see the kids, he is brain washing the kids that it is mum fault. I have done nothing..she doesn't want to give me second chance..she blicked me...etc and the kids would come agitated every time I send them with him... up to the level that I started to refuse sending the kids this week and sent only my oldest son to sleep over with him..he started threatening today that he will get a court order.. don't know what to do?!!!
Help please