Did the mediator give you a section 60I certificate stating your case is unsuitable for mediation? .... If not, call them & get one, you'll need it to file for parenting orders..Mediation rejected my offer because simply there are kids on the application AVO.
I think your are wasting time & money (neither of which you want to waste) having your lawyer send letters to this person. If it were me, I would be instructing lawyer to file an initiating application for property settlement NOW, along with urgent interim orders, in part seeking an injunction on her further dealing with any facet of the business (apart from perhaps normal day to day trading) without your written consent..
If you have that s60I certificate (or can get one issued by mediator quickly), I would include parenting orders in the initiating application, along with urgent interim orders for whatever amount of time you can realistically handle to have kids..... If you can't get the s60I certificate, ask the lawyer to include an application & affidavit for exemption from s60I on the grounds of urgency & family violence
Agree, & seeking orders is the only thing that will pull her back into line.... Don't waste any more time & money on letters is my advicemy lawyers agree she is acting way out of line