Lol @ sammy01 in regard to his ex wanting to remain in a loving relationship with his wallet. Well done gentlemen, no nasty name calling of your ex's. Just remember that one day small children will become teenagers & adults. If their mother has interfered with the relationship between father & child the kids will judge her on her actions. If you can look them in the eye & say that you were never nasty or aggressive to their Mum & that you did your best to be equitable in the financial split they'll be happy with that. My parents split when I was 6. It destroyed my Dad but he was such a good bloke he never said a bad word about Mum. She on the other hand didn't have a nice word to say about him. Kids grow up & discover the truth eventually. Do your best to be the better person, it pays in the end. You may miss out on a bit of time now but it can be made up later under calmer circumstances.