When the borders finally opened at the end of 2021 I asked my EX about taking our kids to Maui to visit their (My side) Grandparents.
I had suggested that Easter vacation from school would be an ideal time.
Her objection was very reasonable (so I thought): Hold off on travel until the kids have become double vaccinated. (Around May 1st they will be)
I agreed. It made sense to me.
A few weeks later I get an email with her plans to fly the kids from Melbourne to Perth........ during Easter vacation.
This is about 3 weeks before they will receive their second shot.
So, I have two issues, and I am wondering if these points are strong enough to try and prevent the trip to Perth from happening.
1.) Double Standard: I don't understand why she won't just wait until June to comply with her own wishes. Travel only when the kids are fully Vaccinated.
2.) We have a Equal Parent Responsibility section in out parenting agreement that clearly states we are to speak with the other parent before booking any travel.
The dates of their trip include night the kids are to be with me. (*I am only asking about the trip, but this is a pattern with schooling, and health care too)
I am concerned this breaking of agreements will go on and on unless I defend our parenting plan which she clearly agreed to just 12 months ago.
Sigh.....
What are my options? I always think about the kids, and want our relationship to heal......then on the other side this is a pattern and causing me great emotional stress.
Thanks for any words of advice
I had suggested that Easter vacation from school would be an ideal time.
Her objection was very reasonable (so I thought): Hold off on travel until the kids have become double vaccinated. (Around May 1st they will be)
I agreed. It made sense to me.
A few weeks later I get an email with her plans to fly the kids from Melbourne to Perth........ during Easter vacation.
This is about 3 weeks before they will receive their second shot.
So, I have two issues, and I am wondering if these points are strong enough to try and prevent the trip to Perth from happening.
1.) Double Standard: I don't understand why she won't just wait until June to comply with her own wishes. Travel only when the kids are fully Vaccinated.
2.) We have a Equal Parent Responsibility section in out parenting agreement that clearly states we are to speak with the other parent before booking any travel.
The dates of their trip include night the kids are to be with me. (*I am only asking about the trip, but this is a pattern with schooling, and health care too)
I am concerned this breaking of agreements will go on and on unless I defend our parenting plan which she clearly agreed to just 12 months ago.
Sigh.....
What are my options? I always think about the kids, and want our relationship to heal......then on the other side this is a pattern and causing me great emotional stress.
Thanks for any words of advice