Hi all My Violence Restraining Order expires today which effectively means there is nothing to stop my ex from coming to my house, phoning me, emailing me, etc. He won't physically hurt me now that he is clean, I no longer have that fear. I am however concerned about the constant harassment I am likely to endure. He is very bitter - he accepted that he had drug & alcohol addictions, gambling issues and was mentally unstable, however, he wouldn't accept that it was over. I had no choice but to apply for a VRO which he accepted without admission. He hasn't seen our daughter (who is almost 12) for several months now - he moved about 2 hours away and works at night - it appears every night. As predicted, when he moved I knew it would only take a few weeks before he stopped bothering (he doesn't bother to pay child support either). The last time he actually said he was coming down to see her, he sent a text half an hour before the agreed pick up time and said he wasn't coming. He has not requested to see her since. One of the orders in the VRO was that she was to call him 3 times per week - she has fulfilled that - always within the required time slot although he doesn't always answer. Sometimes a couple of weeks goes by before she actually speaks to him. My concern is, he will turn up at my door demanding to see our child. He has told her when the VRO expires, it will be a lot easier as he can come and see her whenever he pleases (there are no family court orders - only an informal agreement documented by his lawyer, that she will live with me). He asked her for our address via text - she ignored it but he got it from his lawyer anyway and his parents had it as they would pick her up. I have sent him a letter via email stating I do not wish for him to come to my house, etc, to approach me, call me, etc. That handover will take place at a prearranged meeting place and if he would like to see his daughter to please email me in advance to make arrangements. He has not commented and he has not answered his daughter's calls since then. If he does start harassing me, turning up at the house, our daughter's school - what can I do?