VIC Family Law - Divorcing Father Wishes to be Primary Carer?

[Clancy]

Please do let her know your reasons so that she can at least have a chance to see from your point of view. If she refuse to acknowledge then that’s her problem. Be aware if she claims that you performed domestic violence on her.

All those things are possible, and i have a few very nasty claims i could potentially make as well. However, my policy is to never add anything negative on top if i can possibly avoid it.