Yup what he said... my kids now live with me 80%of the time...she packed it in and dumped them. Not bad for a bloke who was not allowed overnights without my mum present.... and the youngest was 4 when she dumped them....
2 bits of advice
1-keep your eyes on the prize.... the prize? Maximum time with kids. Trivial arguments about this and that are her best weapon.
2- now you understand the game play smart... my ex would come to change overs check the kids hair incase they got knits from me.. all sorts of crap. So let me give you an example. Text message from her.'my children got knits when at your house'
Now i could argue that they are OUR children. I could argue that the knits didnt come from me..... OR. Respond 'if the kids have knits i will wash all bedding and towels at my house. I suggest you do the same. Please provide me with the reciept for any anti-knit treatment and i will pay half. Please let me know if i can be of further assistance.' This stuff can send u crazy. I was almost going to start taking kids to the doctor to get their hair checked before returning them to mum. But if i did that i would be letting her get to me....
Mate my ex went bonkers trying to get me to bite. She was audio recording every change over and sadly for her all those recordings showed is that i am a saint....
2 bits of advice
1-keep your eyes on the prize.... the prize? Maximum time with kids. Trivial arguments about this and that are her best weapon.
2- now you understand the game play smart... my ex would come to change overs check the kids hair incase they got knits from me.. all sorts of crap. So let me give you an example. Text message from her.'my children got knits when at your house'
Now i could argue that they are OUR children. I could argue that the knits didnt come from me..... OR. Respond 'if the kids have knits i will wash all bedding and towels at my house. I suggest you do the same. Please provide me with the reciept for any anti-knit treatment and i will pay half. Please let me know if i can be of further assistance.' This stuff can send u crazy. I was almost going to start taking kids to the doctor to get their hair checked before returning them to mum. But if i did that i would be letting her get to me....
Mate my ex went bonkers trying to get me to bite. She was audio recording every change over and sadly for her all those recordings showed is that i am a saint....