Hi. I am a male. My wife has bipolar disorder and has consequently been angry and abusive to myself and my children for several years. I have done my best so that she could get better and we could be a happy family. However, due to what I can only believe to be fear from what she has done, she has placed an interim order against myself of which the children are listed. The police have adopted the case. In response, I have filed a cross application, of which I have undeniable evidence of her abuse. All I want is for the children to be safe, and for me to be able to see them. I'm in Victoria and have no faith in the court system considering I am a male. If she rejects mediation I feel that my only other option is family court/getting parental orders in place. My main question is how much does family law tend to cost? If i made and initial application for family law, is that likely to change her mind in regards to custody, or do I have to go through the whole process (quoted 40k to me). Are there any other options, particularly considering I have a cross application and that my allegations are much stronger and more evidence based than hers? Simply, what are my options from here to ensure that my children are safe and to ensure that I can have at the very least some significant custody of them? How can it be that you can allegedly call someone a name, and then not be able to see your kids for who knows how long? This is just ridiculous. Any advice would be much appreciated