In 2008, for reasons that I won't go into other than I was basically so stressed out and tired of the bullying, I agreed to not touch my ex husband's 20 year 400k superannuation in return for 15k from a separate small super account. My lawyer did tell me that she could get me 50% without even trying and that once I agreed to this it was final. I wanted peace so I foolishly did not take my lawyer's family law advice.
Now, 7 years on and a lot stronger, I realise that it was a very very foolish thing to do especially as during our 20 years I contributed directly and indirectly to the superannuation as it was always for our retirement.
Is there anyway I can get this re looked at? - only for the period that we were together I still do not want rip him off but I realise that I have put myself in a terrible position purely because I could not cope with the stress of it at the time. Thank you.
Now, 7 years on and a lot stronger, I realise that it was a very very foolish thing to do especially as during our 20 years I contributed directly and indirectly to the superannuation as it was always for our retirement.
Is there anyway I can get this re looked at? - only for the period that we were together I still do not want rip him off but I realise that I have put myself in a terrible position purely because I could not cope with the stress of it at the time. Thank you.
