Im a Father of 3 children. My eldest daughter is almost 13 years old whom i share responsibility with my ex partner. I have 5 nights per fortnight. Everything was going fine.
I last saw my daughter on 30th April 2019, its been 7 weeks since I last saw her or spoken to her.
Her mother sent me a message on the 9th May when i was supposed to have her for my weekend. Her message said my daughter went back to her house with cuts on her wrists from my house and that she will not be allowing her to come to my house from this day forward.
There was nothing wrong with my daughter - we had her for 10 days during the second week of school holidays. She was happy. There was no signs of depression or cutting at our house.
Since then, my daughter and her mother have not answered my calls or responded to text messages.
I had the Police do a welfare check but they were not home, I later found out (via Snapchat location of my daughter) they were in Jervis Bay for the Mothers Day weekend (court orders say if Mothers Day fell on my weekend, mother is to pick up child at 9am Sunday and have child for the night).
Police couldnt help me.
My daughter was taken out of school for 3 weeks because of mental stress and feeling unsafe at school.
I have not been to the school physically, i have been in contact with the Deputy Principal who has not been helpful at all.
I have asked if I could come to the school to speak to my daughter, not physically take her because i know they are able to call the Police especially if my daughter is saying she is scared of me.
I am at my wit's end. I just want to talk to my daughter. My two younger children aged 4 and 7 are wondering where their sister is. They keep asking about her.
The duty solicitor called my ex. She could not provide any photo evidence of the alleged cutting, she couldnt provide any medical certificated.
The court were unable to help me. They advised me all i can do is lodge an application for contravention of orders which i have and have been given a court date in September!!!
I have had an AVO on my ex in the past as she threatened to have me, my wife and baby killed.
I can provide evidence of this.
Only 2 weeks ago, my ex's boyfriend was charged with murder of a shooting in NSW (bikie/drugs related), would you advise me to bring this up?
Will the judge compensate my time with my daughter? Will he reverse access to me?
I have done absolutely nothing wrong.
Any advice is appreciated.
I last saw my daughter on 30th April 2019, its been 7 weeks since I last saw her or spoken to her.
Her mother sent me a message on the 9th May when i was supposed to have her for my weekend. Her message said my daughter went back to her house with cuts on her wrists from my house and that she will not be allowing her to come to my house from this day forward.
There was nothing wrong with my daughter - we had her for 10 days during the second week of school holidays. She was happy. There was no signs of depression or cutting at our house.
Since then, my daughter and her mother have not answered my calls or responded to text messages.
I had the Police do a welfare check but they were not home, I later found out (via Snapchat location of my daughter) they were in Jervis Bay for the Mothers Day weekend (court orders say if Mothers Day fell on my weekend, mother is to pick up child at 9am Sunday and have child for the night).
Police couldnt help me.
My daughter was taken out of school for 3 weeks because of mental stress and feeling unsafe at school.
I have not been to the school physically, i have been in contact with the Deputy Principal who has not been helpful at all.
I have asked if I could come to the school to speak to my daughter, not physically take her because i know they are able to call the Police especially if my daughter is saying she is scared of me.
I am at my wit's end. I just want to talk to my daughter. My two younger children aged 4 and 7 are wondering where their sister is. They keep asking about her.
The duty solicitor called my ex. She could not provide any photo evidence of the alleged cutting, she couldnt provide any medical certificated.
The court were unable to help me. They advised me all i can do is lodge an application for contravention of orders which i have and have been given a court date in September!!!
I have had an AVO on my ex in the past as she threatened to have me, my wife and baby killed.
I can provide evidence of this.
Only 2 weeks ago, my ex's boyfriend was charged with murder of a shooting in NSW (bikie/drugs related), would you advise me to bring this up?
Will the judge compensate my time with my daughter? Will he reverse access to me?
I have done absolutely nothing wrong.
Any advice is appreciated.