OK - so once they decided to withold the child then it makes sense to not contact you. But the other thing is solicitors will often tell their clients to only communicate through the solicitor...
The cynic in me tells me that solicitors do that to help make them money... but sometimes it is really a good idea not to communicate.
Let's face it - if you communicate with the ex it is only gonna end in an argument... Now if that argument includes threats then all of a sudden one party could have a criminal case against the other...
So my suggestion to you is accept there will be zero communication until court and that really is a good thing for two reasons...
1 - You're doing your kid a favour. Phone communication has become an attempt on their part to manipulate your son... Don't have phone communication and you don't have to put your son in that position..
2 - They are using the phone to hurt you.... Don't let them.
Yep the kid might miss the first day of school.
Oh well... Look when you get into court you must stay calm. Say nothing unless asked by a solicitor / magistrate. Don't roll your eyes when you hear something you don't agree with. Listen but don't call out - Just listen and be polite.
The cynic in me tells me that solicitors do that to help make them money... but sometimes it is really a good idea not to communicate.
Let's face it - if you communicate with the ex it is only gonna end in an argument... Now if that argument includes threats then all of a sudden one party could have a criminal case against the other...
So my suggestion to you is accept there will be zero communication until court and that really is a good thing for two reasons...
1 - You're doing your kid a favour. Phone communication has become an attempt on their part to manipulate your son... Don't have phone communication and you don't have to put your son in that position..
2 - They are using the phone to hurt you.... Don't let them.
Yep the kid might miss the first day of school.
Oh well... Look when you get into court you must stay calm. Say nothing unless asked by a solicitor / magistrate. Don't roll your eyes when you hear something you don't agree with. Listen but don't call out - Just listen and be polite.