Long story short, My ex (father) and I have family court orders made in Sept 2016, father now is a registered foster carer with his partner of 11yrs. During the whole proceeding which lasted a total of 10 months, father and his partner didn't inform the courts about future arrangements that might affect the child. I have found out via third parties that father and partner are both on the register paperwork for the foster carers thingy. I have asked father a few times over the last 12 months as I had believed that this was the case to find out in August 2017 that father is a registered foster carer to two other children. My child has come back to tell me that she had a bed and now doesn't and there is no room for her there, I have asked father that if he cant have her there that he must have contact in the area child lives in. In august 2017 father believes that he has the right to come and go as he sees fit, made an arrangement with the child in August to talk about things over with our child and then just disappears for 4 months. I have asked father to rethink the orders and lets agree on something more workable for him and the child. Child is now 13yrs old and is in their 2nd year of high school. Father has sent child a very nasty email saying " if you don't make yourself available as per court orders, I will be seeking legal action against you" Does the father have the right to say this and would this be dangous for the child to contiue contact for now and can myself or the child stop this from happening. I do know if I step in and protect the child and stop contact I know the father will file a breach application against me. Any advice would be helpful?