I am seeking some help on a situation to do with visitation rights and a new "stepmum" in my child's life. There are family court orders in place that state the child lives with me and sees the father two nights a fortnight as in accordance with father's work roster. The father is supposed to provide me with a copy every three months, however, this had rarely happened. He is asking to have our child during the week for overnight stays, but I am concerned as our child is in kinder prep next year that the stress of two homes and schooling will be too much to take on. The child also has attention and behaviour issues that we are working on and this is another reason why I am concerned that it may be too much at this age right now. I have suggested day visits whenever the father is available however he knocked that back. Onto my second subject, my child's father is in a new relationships possibly only been in this relationship 6-8 months and now they are expecting a child together. Every time I try to speak to my child's father he says We disagree or we will see. His partner is also doing up rosters when they can have our child, however, she is stipulating things not him. I cannot speak to my child's father without her. I didn't take the relationship very seriously as my child's father is a serial dater and has dated many women before. So I still do not believe this will last with or without a child present. I guess I would like help on if I have a foot to stand on about stopping weeknight stays as per my concerns and what help I can get on trying to deal with the child's father without the partner being involved in his every say.