Hi, I am hoping for some help and advice regarding my rights and what my chances are of obtaining sole custody of my two children. Three years ago me and my ex broke up due to many reasons but mainly because of his mental health he has bipolar and over the years it has got so severe that he has his.medication administred by his doctor and he has multiple stays in the psychiatric hospital over the past few years. He was always a good father up until our break up but all of a sudden he became a completely different person he started hanging out with druggies and smoking marijuana and it got to the point where he was smoking it while looking after the kids so I told him that he wasn't aloud to have the kids until he turned his life around. This aggravated him and he came to my house demanding to see the kids when I said no he went ahead and smashed my car with his multiple time while I tried to stop him the kids were watching through the window which caused them fear. After that I for him charged for damages and applied for a VRO because I didn't feel safe around him so the courts granted it with the condition of him being able to call regarding the children to see them and talk to them but nothing else I am not the only one who got a VRO out against him.his own father also didnt feel safe around him. Since getting the past year has been pretty quiet from his end, a few phone calls and some chats in the street when walking by but no real effort. Here's my concern I am hoping to move state later in the year for a fresh start but once I asked my ex for permission to move he all of a sudden wanted access to the kids. I have concerns about letting him see them as he might be a danger to them and his living situation is far from clean and child friendly my question is if I go through the process of sole.custody what's the likely hood of getting custody?
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