QLD Separation - Dealing with Children and Bedrooms?

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RefGuy

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21 September 2019
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Nope - So this is where it all gets very messy... See the courts consider themselves more important than anything else. So breach a court order and the magistrate will castrate you.... Take a kid away for three months and refuse to let the kid see dad... No big deal.

So what to do? refuse access? Hmm not a fan of that one.

So right now based on the information provided you've got no security in the eyes of the law.

Your best bet is to do nothing. The longer the kid is in your care the better.

Plan B - if you're on speaking terms and have some sembance of understanding of what she wants you can do DIY consent orders.... Offer her consent orders at your expense and once they're lodged in the courts then you have some security...
Nope - So this is where it all gets very messy... See the courts consider themselves more important than anything else. So breach a court order and the magistrate will castrate you.... Take a kid away for three months and refuse to let the kid see dad... No big deal.

So what to do? refuse access? Hmm not a fan of that one.

So right now based on the information provided you've got no security in the eyes of the law.

Your best bet is to do nothing. The longer the kid is in your care the better.

Plan B - if you're on speaking terms and have some sembance of understanding of what she wants you can do DIY consent orders.... Offer her consent orders at your expense and once they're lodged in the courts then you have some security...


I don’t want to refuse access. I want to refuse her coming and getting him out of spite, don’t want the Po or little guy has to sleemin the floor somewhere while she’s out drinking or something. Surely there has to be some way to protect him.
 

sammy01

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27 September 2015
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Ok, so do you have concerns for the welfare of the child while in her care?
If no - then you've got nothing.
If yes? Have you done anything about it that is documented -third party witness, on file? If yes, sweet. If no, then go back to the start of the post and read it again.