I would love good addvice but no one will help i cant pay anyone any its so far to walk i cant get centrelink or anything till sometime in 2019 because of payout that i put on the house i set it up for disabled son i got a new car that she has and she has taken 40,000 so i dont know what to do and have no supportok so what are you doing to make this thing better? Do you think Doc's need to get involved? Sometimes they can be more trouble than their worth... They could provide her with help as she has mental health issues AND that help might be to your detriment because you don't have mental health issues, you have a criminal history for violence...
I reckon you really need some good legal advice to work out the best way forward