My ex-wife and I are unable to arrive at a determination on the care of the children and recently she applied for child support. Child support fees are typically based on a number of nights per fortnight and logically, the more nights, the more child support fee the parents get. As a result, the ex-wife is severely restricting my access to the kids. This is very sad as this is at the expense of our children who are being denied access to their father. Is there a way Ithe child support payments can be stopped until the child care arrangements are agreed? Spoken to Child Support Agency and they cannot assist me at all and said that they are a fee collections company.