Hi all,
I am in Qld, and I've currently got existing parenting orders in place of less than 12 months old due to my ex refusing to let me see my kids more and had started withholding them from me (he has had the higher care ratio so far as he refused to give them back to me). However, the entire time the orders have been in place, my ex has been contravening them WITHOUT reasonable excuse/reason and has NO care factor in attempting to start following them despite having given him warning that he is doing so and could get in a lot of trouble. He has the opinion of "I have the higher care so your opinion doesn't count indecision making etc".
I have tried reasoning with him but he refuses to listen especially when there has been a strong history of family violence/domestic violence involved and he is a sociopathic/borderline narcissist to the point where I was a victim of many years of abuse from the family until I'd finally had enough and had to get out right after being put in hospital from his mother.
Anyway, without going into too many details as to not give away personal info, I am NEEDING to get the kids OUT of his care ASAP due to extensive (in black and white) documented evidence to prove that there is a lot of neglect towards the kids healthcare, well being and of course their safety. I have already got solid evidence from their school, solid evidence from the hospital and more documentation coming from the doctors as well.
The kids are struggling so much that one of them is to the extreme point of lashing out physically towards not only other students, teachers and towards other family members, also lashing out verbally as well to those around them. As far as putting themselves into harms way by climbing on top of buildings, throwing huge rocks, sticks, sand, and more towards others around him. The other one is to the point of being so withdrawn, emotional, self conscious, and has been classed as being mentally disabled struggling so much with school as they don't get genuine help. To the point of me being told that they will REALLY find it difficult and will struggle when going into high school next year. One child has literally been out of school for over 22 weeks so far this year (solid hard copy evidence) and often times because 'he didn't feel like going that day'.
The documentation I've got proves that there is a strong history of anger management issues from the fathers side, and strong evidence that it has clearly gotten worse the longer they've been with him. Naturally while it's been about 4 years the kids have been mostly in his care, I am honestly hoping for their own safety etc that the evidence will overrule this time frame for sure? The kids will end up moving town (they've been going back and forth now for that same time so they aren't unfamiliar with this), but they will also therefore be completely changing schools.
My concern is that I won't have a chance to get the kids OUT of his care and to safety, to be able to get them the better help they urgently need in order to get them back on track as soon as possible that he is CLEARLY neglecting to do so as per the solid evidence that I've got in my possession?
Can you please give me some help here? Thank you
I am in Qld, and I've currently got existing parenting orders in place of less than 12 months old due to my ex refusing to let me see my kids more and had started withholding them from me (he has had the higher care ratio so far as he refused to give them back to me). However, the entire time the orders have been in place, my ex has been contravening them WITHOUT reasonable excuse/reason and has NO care factor in attempting to start following them despite having given him warning that he is doing so and could get in a lot of trouble. He has the opinion of "I have the higher care so your opinion doesn't count indecision making etc".
I have tried reasoning with him but he refuses to listen especially when there has been a strong history of family violence/domestic violence involved and he is a sociopathic/borderline narcissist to the point where I was a victim of many years of abuse from the family until I'd finally had enough and had to get out right after being put in hospital from his mother.
Anyway, without going into too many details as to not give away personal info, I am NEEDING to get the kids OUT of his care ASAP due to extensive (in black and white) documented evidence to prove that there is a lot of neglect towards the kids healthcare, well being and of course their safety. I have already got solid evidence from their school, solid evidence from the hospital and more documentation coming from the doctors as well.
The kids are struggling so much that one of them is to the extreme point of lashing out physically towards not only other students, teachers and towards other family members, also lashing out verbally as well to those around them. As far as putting themselves into harms way by climbing on top of buildings, throwing huge rocks, sticks, sand, and more towards others around him. The other one is to the point of being so withdrawn, emotional, self conscious, and has been classed as being mentally disabled struggling so much with school as they don't get genuine help. To the point of me being told that they will REALLY find it difficult and will struggle when going into high school next year. One child has literally been out of school for over 22 weeks so far this year (solid hard copy evidence) and often times because 'he didn't feel like going that day'.
The documentation I've got proves that there is a strong history of anger management issues from the fathers side, and strong evidence that it has clearly gotten worse the longer they've been with him. Naturally while it's been about 4 years the kids have been mostly in his care, I am honestly hoping for their own safety etc that the evidence will overrule this time frame for sure? The kids will end up moving town (they've been going back and forth now for that same time so they aren't unfamiliar with this), but they will also therefore be completely changing schools.
My concern is that I won't have a chance to get the kids OUT of his care and to safety, to be able to get them the better help they urgently need in order to get them back on track as soon as possible that he is CLEARLY neglecting to do so as per the solid evidence that I've got in my possession?
Can you please give me some help here? Thank you
