I need some advice on what to do about my sons' father and custody of children. While I was pregnant, he was very nasty. He did not want kids so he tried to force me to have an abortion. Even after I told him that having an abortion was not an option, he tried to force the issue firstly by offering to give me $10,000 to have it and when I refused, he said that he was going to take me to court and take my baby away and make sure I never saw him. Even though he didn't want him, he was just trying to bully me into what he wanted. Now my beautiful little man is almost 5 moths old, his father has made no attempt to contact me or to see his son in over 3 1/2 months even though I let him visit whenever he likes, and he is not paying any child support. I am worried about 3 things: Firstly he is a very vindictive man and I am worried that he will try and use my son just to hurt me. Secondly his home is unfit for a child to be staying there and I would be concerned for the welfare of my child if he ever did decide that he wanted to be part of his life, and lastly I am in the process of doing my will and if something happens to me, I want to give custody of my son to one of my family members. I am very stressed.