No she can't... She would have to satisfy the court that what she HAS tried is sufficient enough for them to conclude that you either genuinely can not be found, or don't want to be foundIm trying to work out if she can just walk in and say I cant find him and the system bows to her wants or does she actually have to show something that says she has tried.
I get the whole DV misuse & abuse issue. I, like others on this forum have been there
That sucks that you have been screwed around by a slacker. They are out there unfortunately... The good news is IF you want to, you can file for orders yourself for under $200. That will be enough to get her served with an initiating application to which she will need to respond & get the ball rolling....I spent almost $10k on a lawyer that was so f***ing useless all should did was make sure i had money in trust. Sends a letter regarding listing property giving my ex 14 to reply. 3 months later I chase it up, I get oh sorry shes seeking legal advice.. Then i askwhat happens if she doesnt reply, I get told you go to circuit court and get a court order for $25,000
If that is something you would be interested in, Just say so & I or others will post you some links to look at..