Hi,
My daughter who lives with her dad in weekends is 10 and still doesn't have her own bedroom. Her bed is in the loungeroom. My ex and I already made an agreement during legal mediation and I am so happy with the agreement and am just waiting for the court order.
Recently I found out that my ex took a male stranger as a sharemate. My daughter complained to me about it which I understand because she needs privacy and on my end, I'm really worried because I don't think it's a safe living arrangement for my daughter, It's bad enough she doesn't have her own bedroom but taking a male stranger is unacceptable for her where there's no door to lock because of not having a bedroom herself.
My ex doesn't work and renting a house is beyond his means. He had a female sharemate but my daughter said my ex was desperate that's why he took a male instead. He could have rented a place where my daughter could have her own bedroom and doesn't have to hire a sharemate but refused.
During mediation, he told us his sharemate was a female. My problem is I didn't indicate on the agreement that he should only take a female sharemate. I asked my ex about this and I was told it's not my concern who lives in his house. Is there anything I can do about this or can I contact the child safety regarding this because my daughter doesn't feel safe about this? Or is there anything I can do because like I said the agreement was already in the court and we're just waiting for the order.
My daughter who lives with her dad in weekends is 10 and still doesn't have her own bedroom. Her bed is in the loungeroom. My ex and I already made an agreement during legal mediation and I am so happy with the agreement and am just waiting for the court order.
Recently I found out that my ex took a male stranger as a sharemate. My daughter complained to me about it which I understand because she needs privacy and on my end, I'm really worried because I don't think it's a safe living arrangement for my daughter, It's bad enough she doesn't have her own bedroom but taking a male stranger is unacceptable for her where there's no door to lock because of not having a bedroom herself.
My ex doesn't work and renting a house is beyond his means. He had a female sharemate but my daughter said my ex was desperate that's why he took a male instead. He could have rented a place where my daughter could have her own bedroom and doesn't have to hire a sharemate but refused.
During mediation, he told us his sharemate was a female. My problem is I didn't indicate on the agreement that he should only take a female sharemate. I asked my ex about this and I was told it's not my concern who lives in his house. Is there anything I can do about this or can I contact the child safety regarding this because my daughter doesn't feel safe about this? Or is there anything I can do because like I said the agreement was already in the court and we're just waiting for the order.
